misandry-mermaid

kelly-is-elf asked:

hi mermaid *cries* i seriously am so fucking fed up with asshole men, like there are guys on my facebook feed laughing and high-fiving and acting all jealous of this 16 year old boy who got raped by 2 female teachers and i told them it was gross and they like, dont care at all. and im just so frustrated and i dont know how u do this all the time bc that one interaction has me just so upset and exhausted with the whole world. i unfriended all of them but i just wish i could do more you know? augh

misandry-mermaid answered:

You did the best thing you could do.  Call them out and delete them from your feed (and hopefully your life).  Good for you.

It’s ironic that feminists are always accused of only caring about female rape victims, but this is how most men treat male victims and when we protest the fact that the rape of teenage boys is not an achievement or something to celebrate, we get ignored or laughed at.  It is a sexual violation and young men deserve to have their consent and safety respected.  That’s what you get when you combine rape culture with toxic masculinity though.

anarchyandacupofcoffee
anarchyandacupofcoffee:

OK Highway Patrol Captain George Brown says the best “tip” for women to not get raped by a cop is to “follow the law in the first place so you don’t get pulled over.”http://youtu.be/BO8g8akPWcY (Last third of the video).
Three serial rapists in 3 weeks arrested in Oklahoma, all cops.
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He implies that all police officers are rapists, and I bet he wonders why people hate the police.

anarchyandacupofcoffee:

OK Highway Patrol Captain George Brown says the best “tip” for women to not get raped by a cop is to “follow the law in the first place so you don’t get pulled over.”
http://youtu.be/BO8g8akPWcY (Last third of the video).

Three serial rapists in 3 weeks arrested in Oklahoma, all cops.

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He implies that all police officers are rapists, and I bet he wonders why people hate the police.

kick-neckbeard-ass

kammartinez:

Author John Scalzi was on a roll this morning (currently 7:14 AM, 26 Sept. 2014) with a tweet he found from some guy sending out an “ultimatum” to women to “make a choice” between feminism and, well, men like him. So Scalzi launched into a truly magnificent set of scorchers, which I’m posting here for the delectation of people everywhere.

Also: I would like to thank that guy for setting the ultimatum. It makes finding a boyfriend so much easier when the undesirable ones wear a placard identifying themselves.

"It’s very simple. I hate women who believe that they deserve rights, and I don’t want to be the only one so I’ll assume all men are just like me."

anxius

anxius:

This guy is arguing that tall women are unattractive because their height emasculates men. This is my opinion on that. Note that I’m very short.

-If you are emasculated that easily you must not be much of a man anyways. Simply an immature child.
-Women do not exist to make you feel like a man.
-A man is not defined on him being taller than his girlfriend. Nor if he is masculine. A real man does not care if his girlfriend is taller than him.
-What is unattractive about long legs?
-Remember that by saying a tall girls emasculates you you’re also saying that you’re not man enough to handle a woman that’s taller than you.
-Most models are tall.

Was he just talking about himself being emasculated by tall women, or did he make a generalization about all men feeling the same way to protect his fragile ego?

oberyns-testicle

hobbitsofbeberlyhills:

My brother just said that a 12 year old boy who was raped by his nanny enjoyed it and only wanted to get attention because he was going through puberty and being molested by a woman was hot,my dad and my older brother agreed with him,he’s the same boy who said my abuser was desperate and wouldn’t come for seconds because I was too ugly to be raped and then minimized my experience to the point of forgetting that it happened at all

Three men say that a 12-year-old boy who was raped enjoyed it. But since they’re not feminists, MRAs don’t care.

creepsandbigots

applejackismyhomegirl:

creepsandbigots:

So this okc user had a disgusting little misogynistic blurb at the end of his profile.

After I expressed disinterest he decided to go on a misogynistic and homophobic rant about me. Needless to say he was reported.

"i hate slutty girls and only want to hear from those who have self respect"

"i have created arbitrary standards for women’s self respect that only includes sleeping with me and if you don’t respond to my cries for attention i’m going to maturely respond with rude misogynistic and homophobic slurs because i’m a giant piece of shit"

"Must have had a shitty father."

A man who is called sexist because of modesty policing assumes that a woman’s father, a random man who he never met, is abusive.

alijay2882knowsklainearementtobe

The Metro newspaper had an article about a man who woke up to be raped by a woman.

alijay2882knowsklainearementtobe:

The article can be read here - http://metro.co.uk/2014/09/14/woman-rapes-man-while-hes-sleeping-after-pinning-his-hands-over-his-head-4868874/?ITO=facebook

What disgusted me was some of the comments on the facebook page of the article. Heres a few - 

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Bizarre Story…

snapbootysuplex:

About 13 years ago, I made friends with a fellow wrestling fan. He introduced me to CM Punk, Steve Corino and all that good independent stuff that my pre teen WWE-centric self wasn’t aware of.

We went to a FWA show in London. I went with my mum, he went with a friend. I had floor seats and he had seats in the balcony to my right overlooking the ring. During the show, I couldn’t shake this uneasy feeling as I felt from my peripheral vision that he was watching me. Nah, he’s obviously just looking at the match and I’m being silly. I would think. I glanced up, yep he’s staring.

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I’m weirded out but my pre teen socially awkward self doesn’t know how to address the situation so I just internalise it (as always) and just watch the show, pretending that I can’t feel his eyes burning into me. CM Punk and Raven make their glorious entrances for their match. These are our two favourite wrestlers, the two wrestlers that we spent 90% of our MSN Messenger chats yabbering away about. I’m really enjoying this. My first live show and I get two see my favourites. I glance up at the balcony from the corner of my eye and he’s still eye balling me. Errr…he continues this throughout the whole show, not watching it.

The show ends. We say our goodbyes. My awkward, introverted self did not have the balls to say ‘What the hell dude?’.

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(This GIF of Birdman was my internal facial expression)

A couple days later I receive a package from him. It’s a VHS with his favourite CM Punk matches on it. Great. I go online to thank him. Then he types paragraphs upon paragraphs declaring his love for me. It’s extremely intense. Before I can reply he sends me a picture of his forearm with my name carved in it. I’m knocked back that I actually semi freak out. Though I was such a meek girl back in the day, I tell him that I don’t see him in that way, the self harm is not healthy but I really treasure our friendship and I hope we can still be cool. Yeah, I was innocent and naive back then.

He then hurls this horrible tirade of abuse at me. Typical ‘nice guy’ fedora shit of how I led him on and I shouldn’t have met him at a wrestling show if I wasn’t interested in him romantically. We only spoke about wrestling and that crazy msn conversation was the first time I had any inclination of any romantic feelings. The stuff he call me is horrible. I block him. Another guy from online wrestling group of friends, who I considered a dear friends, starts to message me, calling a ‘heartless bitch’ etc etc. I haven’t spoken to any of them since.

Today I was clearing up, when I came across that CM Punk VHS that he sent me and this memory came flooding back. I never watched it but I keep it regardless. Considering the timing of when he sent it to me, I half expect it to actually be a really fucked up video of himself doing or saying something fucked up.



"Typical ‘nice guy’ fedora shit of how I led him on and I shouldn’t have met him at a wrestling show if I wasn’t interested in him romantically."

Nice Guys are always telling women that they shouldn’t lead men on by hanging out with them if they have no romantic or sexual interest. But if women followed that advice and refused to hang out with anyone they’re not romantically or sexually interested in, those same Nice Guys would complain about women assuming that men only care about getting a girlfriend or getting laid.